Here's a familiar story...
Boy meets girl
Child gets the number of girls
Boy girl is called and set the first date.
Child appears at the door of the girl with flowers (or a gift of luxury), brings him to an expensive restaurant and speaks of how he really likes him.
Girl quickly ends the date and does not respond to any of their follow-up calls.
This is family, because it is something that almost every boy has done at some point in his life of dating.
The truth is that we have been programmed to behave in this way. In the romantic film of average, the male character WINS on the affection of a girl by professing his undying love. And if you've never seen one of these films with a girl, you will see how emotional choke up gets.
So naturally, it seems logical to think that gestures romantic in his first couple of dates are the best way to attract interest.
My question is: in case of being romantic the first to know a woman?
The answer is no. And here is the reason why...
Approach to men and women from different ways. Guys quite know as a child prior to the date. If she is attractive and find it me interesting, we're hooked.
For us, the first two dates is the time where it is obsessed with that ourselves (and perhaps get a little action)! And the way to one that has been shown that the work is to make the "romantic" gestures we see "working" in Hollywood films.
On the other hand, women see dating as a way to "qualify" a boy. Sure she might be interested, but indeed also unconsciously sought specific qualities that can kill a guy like a potential dating partner.
A bad move, and will return the address of "Let's just be friends".
So when you come on too strong with romantic gestures, show that really do not care about that she is as a person. Instead it is giving away your power and showing that you're already in it before that even demonstrated itself.
A woman wants to feel that she has gained the interest of a boy. And not only because of it. While she is still trying to remove it is contained, as he is demonstrating his interest.
Therefore, we want women from men?
The answer is that all the girls are looking for one main thing:
SEXUAL ATTRACTION
Sexual attraction is that feeling you get when he meets a boy that resonates in the emotional side of his mind.
Cannot create this feeling by buying their gifts or be romantic. These actions only speak with the logical side of his mind.
To create the sexual attraction, you have to demonstrate the qualities of someone who makes a woman feel excited and stimulated. For example, include the qualities
or challenge his actions and statements
or tease with humor and joke
or showing a spontaneous attitude
or demonstrating a high level of confidence
or be reliable with a bit of danger
or showing independence in your life
or make her feel important
Now the last quality can be a bit confusing.
The majority of boys Act romantic because they think that tries to make it feel important.
This is because at first she hasn't done anything to show itself.
With saying this, you want to show that you are interested and make it feel important as you are getting to know it. So while you should never appear in his first couple of dates with an armful of roses, you must show your interest if she passes the test and complies with the standards.
In other words, if you have a while and know the qualities you are looking for, then you can start to show that she is to win approval.
Finally, I would like to stress one important thing...
ALWAYS wants to be a gentleman (i.e.: opening of the door, taking her with his body language and pay for the first date). But at the same time, you want to also take hair and create sexual tension that is necessary for the attraction.
Ditch as well the gestures of romantic in his first couple of dates, act as a gentleman and use this time to find out if it is right for you!
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