I have a huge dating online experience. When I was dating in line was a very popular girl (would like hundreds and hundreds of messages per new kids per week, at times per day) and could not respond to all over the world to everyone. In fact, it had to be very selective. Therefore, I quickly began to see what were the triggers that I respond to a boy, pay attention to your e-mail address and profile and be interested in it. These were the most important factors:
1. A nice photo of yourself. I always wanted to see your eyes, your face. You don't have to be an impressive guy at all, but only have a pretty face, cosy. In the photo don't look afraid or crazy, but just relaxed. If you have a good body may also show in its second or third photo, in a decent way, of course, but the face is important.
2 Try and write something witty and intelligent in your profile or, if prefer you, something that says something about who you are. There must be something that makes you unique so it should be 'out' there.
3 Take the first step. No matter how attractive the girl is only her send a nice line after having read your profile. Something that tells you that you are interested in it and not only send a circular to all the girls with an active profile. Something like... "when you say... really struck a chord in me because..." I have found what he said really ingenious and intelligent "."
4 - If she does not respond to you immediately, not put. There are a million reasons why she is not responding. Probably because it has already received 100 messages! If it has not responded to you within a week, again, write very well, wittily, start again. Not to mention the first email, not annoying sound because she does not respond to the first time. The key here is to show a genuine interest in it without being obsessive.
5 Do this with at least 6 or 7 girls at a time. You will receive the responses, at least some of them. Be witty, intelligent, they show a real interest in it. Try to get to know her a little before the first date unless you specifically want to meet you immediately. Some girls want to 'test' their real interest and find out about you a little more before meeting him in the flesh. More pictures can of course change while so much so be prepared and have beautiful photos ready for her.
Then, when the two met on their first date, study their body language signals to find out if she is attracted to you, to ensure that they act with more confidence and win his heart more effectively. It can also, I should know what are the best online dating sites to maximize your success!
Jules Monty, author of 'My search for love'.
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