Women Approaching Men - 5 Secrets For Getting Women to Notice You and Make the First Move

Here's a question I get all the time: "Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me? And how can I get women to approach me first?"

Okay, that's actually two questions. But you get the point.

Well, we all know that women are typically subtle creatures. They aren't often going to come whack you upside the melon with a 2×4 and announce, "Hey stoopid...I'm into you."

On second thought, maybe in certain parts of Brooklyn and/or Queens that could happen. And having gone to school in downtown Filthydelphia, I might have to make an exception there also.

But I digress.

Even though most guys habitually miss women's subtle indicators of interest, all is not lost. In fact, this post is dedicated to lazy guys everywhere who want to hit the "easy button" and bypass all of the Chick Whispering altogether.

Here, at long last, are five bona fide ways you can get women to approach you for a change.

Let's get on with it...

Be A Bartender Or Waiter
So you want to get your bar/club game in order? Try working at one. I might even include "bouncer" on the "A list" of must-have jobs. Then again, if AFC's persist in buying the hottest women drinks, then that would obviate my point. Let's put you behind the bar and hope for the best anyway. After all, some hottie somewhere has got to be buying her own drinks...um, right?

On second thought, why not just be a waiter? Go sling hash at Red Lobster and serve Sailor's Platters all day to cuties. And businessmen on their lunch break.

Here's a better idea, work in the kitchen. That way the waitresses have to approach you constantly...all shift long.

Take Your Dog To The Park
Ingredients: One dalmatian. One red scarf. One frisbee. Combine into one local park and mix thoroughly. Now that's a recipe for getting mobbed by women if I've ever seen one.

No dalmatian? A Labrador, Shetland Sheepdog or Australian Shepherd should do. Or just take a Chihuahua and stand there holding it until someone wants to pet it.

And if all else fails, at least you aren't going home alone...right?

Work At The Mall
What do women love more than anything? Shopping, of course. And where are the most shops to do such shopping located? You guessed it...the mall.

Don't even think about working at Champs or some other guy store, though.

And don't get your logic crossed up and go work at Fashion Bug or something either. Only completely style-free women shop there.

And it's not like you can go to Petite Sophisticate and get a job either. That's just flat-out creepy.

What you need to do is be the guy standing in the food court handing out Chick-Fil-A. Hot women love Chick-Fil-A. And Orange Juliuses too. I guess. Nah, stick with Chick-Fil-A. The name says it all.

Never mind the fact that you're only getting minimum wage for your trouble. This is about scoring the babes.

Babysit Your Niece And Go Public
First, get an older sister or brother. Next, make them have a kid or two. Then, get the kid to grow up so she (preferably) is potty-trained.

From there, you've got about 18-24 months to get to babysittin'.

Dress the cute little girl up and take her where women tend to hang out. Like Chick-Fil-A.

I got mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders at ELP airport one day with this strategy. Except the kid happened to be my daughter. And I was married to the kids Mom. So no "digits". Bummer.

Wear A Red Shirt To Target

Now, let me be forthright. I don't have a lot of red shirts. After all, red means "stop".

Nonetheless, one day I happened to "hit the Target" wearing one of those red shirts.

If you haven't figured out the significance of this section yet, people who work at Target wear red shirts. And it's not even like they have standard, company-issue uni or anything. They just wear some red shirt they dug out of the closet...or some freshman football player's locker.

This means that if the planets are aligned and you happen to drop in the local Target with a red shirt on, you're fittin' to get mobbed. By beautiful women. And by old guys who can't find the Metamucil.

But the point is, they're approaching you.

OK, by now you've probably figured out that this is a semi-serious post, at best.

With all the time we spend around here talking about "manning up", my role as a dating coach to men is always going to be to encourage guys to do the approaching. I can't really expect you to sit here and listen to me blather on about "women approaching you" with a straight face.

After all, if you're waiting around for women to approach you, you might wait a long time. Even if you take the list I gave above seriously, you've got to admit there are some "surgical procedures" involved. You've got to be in the right place at the right time under the right circumstances.

So why not avoid the hassle altogether and go talk to some women? Make the first move. Be proactive. It feels better than wearing a red shirt to Target.

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How to Get Women to Answer Their Phones When You Call

The goal of emailing women on dating sites it to get their phone numbers, which can then lead to meeting in the real world.

In this article you'll learn what to do once you get a woman's number, and how to transition from emailing to talking on the phone.

Why Women Don't Answer Their Phones After Giving You Their Number

Many women will give you their phone number and then never pick up when you call.

A woman that doesn't answer your calls or return your messages makes absolutely no sense. After all, if she's not interested, why would she have given you her number in the first place?

The explanation comes down to attraction. If you can attract a woman, she will likely give you her phone number. However, attraction is a fleeting emotion.

A woman might be momentarily attracted to you, say from a funny email you sent her, and give you her number, but then a few days later when you call her she doesn't answer because those feelings of attraction are gone.

So what do you do then? How do you get a woman to answer her phone when you call or return your messages?

Well, first we have to go back a little bit.

Attraction Starts Before You Call A Woman

If a woman was guilted into giving you her number or just being polite, of course she's not going to answer when you call.

Make sure you're getting women's numbers because they are attracted to you, not because they are being polite. That is the first step to getting a woman to answer her phone when you call.

So let's say you have attracted a woman and she has given you her number. What then?

Well, you can just call her, but the problem with that is only a small percentage of women will actually answer their phone.

One reason women don't answer their phones is because they don't recognize your number.

If a woman doesn't answer her phone, you'll have to leave a message. You'll then have to wait for her to call you back, if she ever does.

Some guys have realized leaving messages on women's voicemail doesn't work very well, so they get smart and text her.

Setting up a date through text can be done and I have done it, however, doing that prevents you from attracting her over the phone, which is very powerful.

Setting up dates through text also eliminates the chance you have to qualify a woman to make sure she'll be fun once you meet up with her. It's much better to find out if a woman is a dud on the phone before you take the time to meet up with her.

Going out with women who have nothing to say, who are boring, who are negative, or who you have no chemistry with is a waste of time. And you can't find out any of that information through text, but you can over the phone.

I have disqualified a lot of women over the phone and thereby saved my time for other women. I've learned this by making the mistake of meeting up with women who were duds on the phone and then were duds in person too.

My rule of thumb is if you have no chemistry or don't have fun with a woman on the phone, there is no point in meeting up with her in person. I'm sure there are exceptions, but this rule will save you a lot of wasted time with women who suck in person.

So now you know why talking to a woman on the phone is important, but how do you get her to pick up her phone?

How To Get A Woman To Program Your Number Into Her Phone Before You Call

How do you get around the problem of a woman not recognizing your number?

You get her to program your number into her phone before you call her. This greatly increases the chances a woman will actually answer her phone when you call.

I'm going to give you a text message in just moment that will persuade most women to program your number into their phone, but first there are a couple things to keep in mind.

You'll want to call a woman on the same day you text her this message. And you want to have a few hours between the time you text her and then call her.

So if a woman gives her number in the evening or at night, you'll probably want to wait until the next day to text her.

If a woman emails you her number early in the day you can text her and then call her that same night.

Here's the text message:

Hi. Just wanted to give you my number too. - Brandon

(Obviously you'll want to leave your name instead of mine.)

Very simple, but very powerful.

This text does several things very effectively.

First, it makes it seem like she asked for your number and you were just being polite by giving it to her. This is powerful because it gives value to your number.

Second, there is a subtle suggestion that she should program her number into her phone. So rather than seeing a number she doesn't recognize, she'll see your name when you call.

Third, it prepares her for your call. She'll assume the next thing you're going to do is call her.

Most women will text back something like, "Thanks, how are you doing?" or "Hey! What are you up to?" I'll usually text back something like, "Just working. I'll call you tonight."

I keep it brief when I text a woman back because I don't want to have a conversation through text. It's very easy to lose momentum when a woman doesn't text back right away, and if you lose momentum she might not answer her phone.

After you send the text, wait a few hours and then call her. (I like to call between 8 and 9:30 pm.) Most women will now answer when you call.

Some women won't text you back. That's not a big deal. Just call her a few hours after you send the text anyway.

Try out this text and let me know how it goes.

Brandon Duran

Getting women's phone numbers on dating sites is critical to meeting them in the real world. (If you don't know how to get a woman's number on dating sites see how to get a girls number.) But after you get a woman's number, you've then got to do a lot of other things right in order to meet her in person.

If you'd like to find out what those other things are, check out the Get Her To Respond blog. It's packed with cutting edge online dating advice to help you meet and date more women from online dating sites. Brandon Duran, creator of the Get Her To Respond blog and the premier online dating coach, has condensed some of his best techniques for meeting women online, and it's all free on the blog. Check it out now http://www.gethertorespond.com/

How to Get Women to Sleep With You Like the Pros Do - The Alpha Male System

Taking hot women home with you doesn't have to be hard. The top pickup artists have already done the work of finding out what makes women attracted to men. Why reinvent the wheel? Why not use what these alpha males have already discovered to kick your chances of getting with a hot girl to the next level?

I used to have a tough time getting women to be attracted to me. I studied women to find out just what it was that made them "tick" when it came to attraction. Then I discovered that the ground work had already been completed for me. Why was I wasting my time when I could learn from a pro?

Attraction in women works differently then men (I know you are saying "duh" right now, but its true). There are specific triggers that make women turned on. If you understand how these triggers work you can easily get women to want you.

If you are tired of being one of those guys without a date on the weekend, if you want to attract more hot women when you head out to the bar, then you owe it to yourself to find out how to become the alpha male that girls desire. There are systems out there that can show you the way. Before you spend any more of your hard-earned money trying to impress a girl, choose to invest that money in yourself.

Would you like to be the alpha male? Are you ready to change your luck with women?

You can become the Alpha Male that women want.

Check out the Alpha Male System and change your life right now!

How to Get Women in Bed - 3 Tips to Make a Woman Want You In Her Room

Dating can be fun when you are meeting women and having a good time. It can be a lot MORE fun when you are not just meeting women, but also getting them in bed with you. If you want to be the kind of guy that seems to have an easy time getting women into bed with you, then there are a few things that you need to discover. When you know what makes a woman want to go to bed with you, then being able to seduce a woman into bed becomes pretty easy.

Here are 3 tips that you need to know if you want to get women into bed:

1. Women don't go to bed with guys that lack confidence when they are around them.

This one simple thing really is the foundation for getting women into bed with you. Confidence alone may not make you become the next Don Juan, but not having confidence will have you going home alone with no one but yourself in the bed. One of the easiest ways to gain confidence with women is to just get out there and start surrounding yourself with women. You cannot help but to become more confident when you are used to being around sexy women.

2. Women go to bed with guys that know how to push the right buttons.

We've all heard about pushing the right buttons on a woman, but it means nothing if you do not know what those buttons are or how to "activate" them. To do this, you have to provoke the right emotions in a woman, the ones that make her feel good and associate YOU with these emotions. Passion, lust, excitement. These are the kinds of emotions that make women want to go to bed with a guy. These are the buttons that you need to push if you are going to get laid more often.

3. You have to be able to time yourself to make the move at just the right moment.

Don't get too caught up in the idea that everything has to be perfect or that you have to do things at the right second, but you do need to have the timing down to where you are able to make your move when she is "ripe" and ready. The difference in making your move when a woman is still kind of cold and when she is already warmed up can mean that you end up getting nothing at all in the end.

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Top Six Factors Affecting the Chance of Getting Women Pregnant

Many couples these days are having problems in conceiving a baby. Men and women are poorly oriented by some methods and factors that increase the chance of?getting women pregnant.

Around 6.1 million couples are affected by infertility. That is around 10 percent of the population of women who are already capable of getting pregnant according to National Survey of Family Growth, CDC 1995. Women who are affected by infertility can be affected as early as they have started their menstrual cycle. But most of the affect women are those who are in the ages of 30 to 40.

Getting women pregnant may be a challenge for couples since there are numerous factors that may cause infertility among women.

First, ovulation complications are the major cause of infertility and they are caused by six common factors. People should know the 6 most common factor that cause infertility among women tor them to avoid them and be successful in getting women pregnant.
Second, ovulation problems are likely to surface in middle-aged women and even in the 30's. Women in general do not want to be pregnant in an early age. As much as possible most women would like to get pregnant as soon as they are successful in terms of money and that would usually happen in the middle ages. As women age, so as their gametes particularly the egg cell. And as the egg cell ages, the quality diminishes. This then results to a decreased chance of getting women pregnant.
Third, problems may arise in the fallopian tubes of women decreasing the chances of getting women conceived. Of course, people know that the fallopian tubes in women are one of the most vital parts of the reproductive system. And when the fallopian tube is blocked, getting women pregnant would virtually be impossible. This blockage in the fallopian tube of women prevents the egg cell to travel down the uterus and meet the sperm cell. Pelvic inflammatory disease or PID is one of the most common causes of the blockage in the fallopian tube. PIDs infect the pelvic organs in women causing cysts and adhesions on the ovary and the fallopian tube. This prevents the egg from making it down to the uterus for the conception.
Fourth, too much exercise may bring difficulties in getting women pregnant as women get thinner. And, being thin may lead to amenorrhea, a complication where a woman misses menstrual cycle and periods. This would be an indication that a particular woman is experiencing a halt in her fertilization. Moreover, it would not only mean exercise, but also it can be caused b severe stress since recent studies have shown a link in stress and infertility among women.
Fifth, Uterine fibroids may cause a slight chance of getting women pregnant. Uterine fibroids are benevolent tumors that grow in the lining of the uterus. These tumors can cause heavy bleeding and severe pain in the pelvic area. Although uterine fibroids may not mainly affect the fertility of women, some experts have already found that the uterine fibroid is capable of blocking the fallopian tube of the women. Thus, disabling the egg cell from going down the uterus for fertilization as mentioned above. Furthermore, uterine fibroids can cause premature delivery.
Lastly, smoking can greatly affect the reproductive system of women rendering men with lessened chance of getting women pregnant. The 49 carcinogens and other harmful chemicals that could damage the egg cell making it difficult for the sperm cell to penetrate and start the fertilization of the egg cell. Furthermore, the chemicals in the stick of death may cause miscarriage.

Upon knowing the factors that greatly affect the decreased chance of getting women pregnant, people particularly women should be wary of the factors and how they can avoid these factors. They should first consult their gynecologists and other medical experts to know what effective ways they can utilize to increase the chance of?getting women pregnant.

Alice J. Johnson

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To increase your chances of getting pregnant there are some things that can't be explained in a short article. Take a look here to find out more secrets on getting women pregnant.

How to Get Women to Notice You - 2 Guaranteed Ways to Make Women Interested

Do you want women to notice you without having to TRY and get them to notice you? Most men who are new to seduction think that it's all about "making" women like them by using cute little routines. This is absolutely wrong. In order to be successful with women you need to get away from all the structure and really get in touch with your true alpha man. Here is how to get women to notice you.

How to Get Women to Notice You

1. Become the Life of the Party

Yes, I know you've heard this many times before. But I am going to actually explain what being the life of a party is all about. You see, the guys who go out to clubs for the sole reason of picking up women have only a fraction of the success that other guys have when they go out for their OWN purpose.

Rather than focusing on impressing the women, you should be intrinsically focused on your own self-entertainment. When you are out to have YOUR OWN fun women will be drawn towards you because you become the life of the party. Women just want to have fun. So show them how much fun YOU are having and they will want to be a part of it.

2. Pre-selection

One of the most effective ways to get noticed by women is by already having beautiful women around you. This is precisely why I stress the fact that guys should focus on building a solid network of female friends.

When you show up to a club with some sexy women, the other women are going to KNOW that you already have something of value to offer. And they will find out what that is. Curiosity is a very powerful tool in attraction.

And Remember...

If you want to make women crazy with lust, you MUST master your body language. This will give you an unfair advantage over the MILLIONS of men who are completely CLUELESS about its power!

Research has proven that 93% of communication is conveyed through body language. Most times, you have RUINED your chances with a woman before you even get a chance to open your mouth!

If you really want to learn how to seduce women, then learn the Secrets of Body Language...this much I know for sure

Understanding Attraction - The Key to Getting Women

If you want women learn to attract them

Attraction is the primary need to get women. The initial thing you have to do is learn about attraction. It is vital that you learn everything there is to know about attraction because without it you will have no chance at all. Guys for the most part go for women that they are attracted to physically. Women on the other hand go for men they are attracted to on a mental level. So if you learn the way to spark that mental interest you will be well on the way to attracting the women that you desire. Remember this if you want to have women be attracted to you, the first thing you need to do is take steps to be attractive to them.

Attraction is the primary important fact in getting women

This is great for us guys. Of course spending 5 hours a day at the gym to have washboard abs can never hurt. Looks matter to a point, but if you spend those same five hours every single day working on your personality, you presentation and your charm with women, you will easily beat the gym guy. That is not to say that shape isn't a factor. Being presentable is important. 50 extra pounds is not attractive to women. But 10-15 extra pounds really will not matter in the long run. To attract her you need to work on the following personality traits: confidence, self-assurance, humor, charisma, communication, flirting and complete understanding of body language. If you can improve on that list, and learn a few "tricks" along the way you will be well on your way to getting women.

Since attraction is such an essential part of getting women, I hope that you would check this out: The Attraction Master. It will show you detailed hints and examples from every single one of the important personality traits: confidence, self-assurance, humor, charisma, communication, flirting and complete understanding of body language. Understanding attraction is not nearly as difficult as men often think.