Women Approaching Men - 5 Secrets For Getting Women to Notice You and Make the First Move

Here's a question I get all the time: "Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me? And how can I get women to approach me first?"

Okay, that's actually two questions. But you get the point.

Well, we all know that women are typically subtle creatures. They aren't often going to come whack you upside the melon with a 2×4 and announce, "Hey stoopid...I'm into you."

On second thought, maybe in certain parts of Brooklyn and/or Queens that could happen. And having gone to school in downtown Filthydelphia, I might have to make an exception there also.

But I digress.

Even though most guys habitually miss women's subtle indicators of interest, all is not lost. In fact, this post is dedicated to lazy guys everywhere who want to hit the "easy button" and bypass all of the Chick Whispering altogether.

Here, at long last, are five bona fide ways you can get women to approach you for a change.

Let's get on with it...

Be A Bartender Or Waiter
So you want to get your bar/club game in order? Try working at one. I might even include "bouncer" on the "A list" of must-have jobs. Then again, if AFC's persist in buying the hottest women drinks, then that would obviate my point. Let's put you behind the bar and hope for the best anyway. After all, some hottie somewhere has got to be buying her own drinks...um, right?

On second thought, why not just be a waiter? Go sling hash at Red Lobster and serve Sailor's Platters all day to cuties. And businessmen on their lunch break.

Here's a better idea, work in the kitchen. That way the waitresses have to approach you constantly...all shift long.

Take Your Dog To The Park
Ingredients: One dalmatian. One red scarf. One frisbee. Combine into one local park and mix thoroughly. Now that's a recipe for getting mobbed by women if I've ever seen one.

No dalmatian? A Labrador, Shetland Sheepdog or Australian Shepherd should do. Or just take a Chihuahua and stand there holding it until someone wants to pet it.

And if all else fails, at least you aren't going home alone...right?

Work At The Mall
What do women love more than anything? Shopping, of course. And where are the most shops to do such shopping located? You guessed it...the mall.

Don't even think about working at Champs or some other guy store, though.

And don't get your logic crossed up and go work at Fashion Bug or something either. Only completely style-free women shop there.

And it's not like you can go to Petite Sophisticate and get a job either. That's just flat-out creepy.

What you need to do is be the guy standing in the food court handing out Chick-Fil-A. Hot women love Chick-Fil-A. And Orange Juliuses too. I guess. Nah, stick with Chick-Fil-A. The name says it all.

Never mind the fact that you're only getting minimum wage for your trouble. This is about scoring the babes.

Babysit Your Niece And Go Public
First, get an older sister or brother. Next, make them have a kid or two. Then, get the kid to grow up so she (preferably) is potty-trained.

From there, you've got about 18-24 months to get to babysittin'.

Dress the cute little girl up and take her where women tend to hang out. Like Chick-Fil-A.

I got mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders at ELP airport one day with this strategy. Except the kid happened to be my daughter. And I was married to the kids Mom. So no "digits". Bummer.

Wear A Red Shirt To Target

Now, let me be forthright. I don't have a lot of red shirts. After all, red means "stop".

Nonetheless, one day I happened to "hit the Target" wearing one of those red shirts.

If you haven't figured out the significance of this section yet, people who work at Target wear red shirts. And it's not even like they have standard, company-issue uni or anything. They just wear some red shirt they dug out of the closet...or some freshman football player's locker.

This means that if the planets are aligned and you happen to drop in the local Target with a red shirt on, you're fittin' to get mobbed. By beautiful women. And by old guys who can't find the Metamucil.

But the point is, they're approaching you.

OK, by now you've probably figured out that this is a semi-serious post, at best.

With all the time we spend around here talking about "manning up", my role as a dating coach to men is always going to be to encourage guys to do the approaching. I can't really expect you to sit here and listen to me blather on about "women approaching you" with a straight face.

After all, if you're waiting around for women to approach you, you might wait a long time. Even if you take the list I gave above seriously, you've got to admit there are some "surgical procedures" involved. You've got to be in the right place at the right time under the right circumstances.

So why not avoid the hassle altogether and go talk to some women? Make the first move. Be proactive. It feels better than wearing a red shirt to Target.

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How to Get Women to Notice You - 2 Guaranteed Ways to Make Women Interested

Do you want women to notice you without having to TRY and get them to notice you? Most men who are new to seduction think that it's all about "making" women like them by using cute little routines. This is absolutely wrong. In order to be successful with women you need to get away from all the structure and really get in touch with your true alpha man. Here is how to get women to notice you.

How to Get Women to Notice You

1. Become the Life of the Party

Yes, I know you've heard this many times before. But I am going to actually explain what being the life of a party is all about. You see, the guys who go out to clubs for the sole reason of picking up women have only a fraction of the success that other guys have when they go out for their OWN purpose.

Rather than focusing on impressing the women, you should be intrinsically focused on your own self-entertainment. When you are out to have YOUR OWN fun women will be drawn towards you because you become the life of the party. Women just want to have fun. So show them how much fun YOU are having and they will want to be a part of it.

2. Pre-selection

One of the most effective ways to get noticed by women is by already having beautiful women around you. This is precisely why I stress the fact that guys should focus on building a solid network of female friends.

When you show up to a club with some sexy women, the other women are going to KNOW that you already have something of value to offer. And they will find out what that is. Curiosity is a very powerful tool in attraction.

And Remember...

If you want to make women crazy with lust, you MUST master your body language. This will give you an unfair advantage over the MILLIONS of men who are completely CLUELESS about its power!

Research has proven that 93% of communication is conveyed through body language. Most times, you have RUINED your chances with a woman before you even get a chance to open your mouth!

If you really want to learn how to seduce women, then learn the Secrets of Body Language...this much I know for sure

How to Get Women to Notice You - Keys to Attracting Female Attention

As a guy, you should be well aware of the fact that if you cannot attract female attention, if you don't know how to get women to notice you, then you are going to end up spending a lot of lonely nights. Too many guys knows that all too well, as a matter of fact. Problem is, just knowing that you need to attract female attention is not really an answer as to how, is it? Being able to solve the how is half the battle.

Good looking single women get a lot of male attention, so if you are going to somehow standout, then you need to be able to rise above the ranks of all of the other guys that she comes across. Thankfully, it might not be as hard as it seems to get women to notice you.

Here are 3 keys to attracting female attention:

1. Women notice guys that know how to dress with style.

Now, you don't have to turn into a metro sexual overnight, but you do have to carry yourself with some kind of a style and it needs to be unique to you. Women love men that have style, just think about how they go gaga over guys that dress like rock stars, guys that dress in 3 piece suits, and guys that can pull of that jock look. Whatever your style is, carry it well, and make sure that you try to look the best that you can whenever you go out.

2. Women notice guys that other women notice.

It's funny how universal this is. No matter where you go, what country or state that you are in, women DO pay attention to guys that seem to be able to attract other women. Well, to pull this off, you have to socialize with women, even if they are not necessarily the ones that you want to end up with. Become friends with women, and go out for a night of fun with them. You just might be surprised how that can lead to another women noticing you.

3. Women pay attention to men that have a sense of charisma.

Charismatic men always get attention from women, be it on the job, in a club, or whatever setting they might be in. Some say that you cannot create charisma, that you are just born with it. That's nonsense. Take a look at guys that have that charismatic flair and pay attention to the way that they carry themselves. Eventually it will begin to rub off on you.

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11 Ways to Get Women to Notice You - In a Good Way!

You may be very talented at getting women to notice you in all the wrong ways but what you really want is women to notice you in all the right ways. It can be easier said than done if you don't understand what women want and what they find attractive.

So here are 11 different ways to get women to not only look your way but like what they see when they look.

1. Be Confident In Whatever You Do

Whether you are mowing the lawn or trying to break the world record for how many hot dogs you can stuff in your mouth you want to show confidence in your abilities and talents.

Confidence oozes out of you when you have it and there is nothing sexier than a confident guy.

Just remember that confidence has a way of slipping over to arrogance which is the least sexy attribute of a guy so don't shout it from the roof tops but instead let it shine through without having to say a word.

2.?? Be Helpful and Compassionate

Are you the guy that holds the door open for the elderly or are you the guy that doesn't even notice an elderly person is around? If you don't notice them then you have a less chance of women noticing you.

It doesn't have to be elderly people; it can be anyone who you choose to help out that may need it.

A woman may not notice you at all, even if you are sitting beside them for hours, but if you do an act of kindness she will see you immediately. So start doing some random kind things from the heart and watch women notice you and give you a knowing smile immediately after.

3.? Take Care of Yourself - Physically

You don't have to be a muscle man but you should take care of yourself to some degree. ?I mean, you have to stay clean and look clean and smell clean for attraction to take place.

The great thing about women is that they see past appearances and include a lot of other traits they are looking for in their list. So if you are overweight and think you are not the greatest catch on the block a woman may think otherwise depending on your other traits.

Unfortunately though if you do nothing to look after yourself then you will probably be in the back of the line on any women's list.

4. Take Care of Yourself - Mentally

A positive outlook on life goes a long way, not only for yourself but in how others view you. If you are in a frame of mind where your life sucks and everything around you sucks then how can you expect a woman to want to jump on your misery train with you?

Look after your mental health by having goals in life, seeing the positive side of situations; going after the things you want in life, and acknowledging your self-worth and contribution to this world.

5.? Smile and Even Laugh - Enjoy Life

A guy who enjoys life is extremely attractive to women.? Women want a guy who is going to add joy and fun into their life and if you are someone who can make them laugh and have fun then you are going to be a hugely sought after guy.

6.? Take Charge and Make Decisions

I'm not talking about trying to make every decision for a woman. That's stepping over the line. But women do like a guy who is willing to take charge and make some suggestions or decisions for the both of them.

So if you tend to say "I don't know what do you want to do?" then you may want to start writing down a list of other, more concrete, things to say instead.

7.? Be Honest and Real

Women can see through a fake story or attitude instantly.? So if you are trying to pretend to be the strongest man alive or someone who knows everything about fine wine then - and you don't, then you better admit it and start focusing on things that are actually true.

No women wants to find out that you've been lying about your talents or that the real you has been hidden under the fake you that you thought they would like. You will most likely end up losing the girl if you got her with lies which can feel worse than her not liking you for you in the beginning because now you have feelings attached.

So be real and be yourself.

8.? Don't Be a Pushover

If you have a habit of letting people walk all over you then break the habit as soon as possible. Get a backbone and stand up for what's right and what you will allow other people to do to you.

If someone is making you feel bad about yourself, that is not okay, and it comes across as being weak and incapable of standing up for yourself.

This also applies with others. If you see someone getting pushed around or treated unfairly then speak up for them. You will have much more pride in yourself when you do and women will be drawn to you.

9. Eye Contact Has Been Highly Underrated When Getting Women To Notice You

Eye contact lets a woman know that you have noticed her and that you are confident in your ability to please her.

Women will take a lot of meaning from eye contact so you want to make sure that you use it correctly and don't send the wrong message.

Think about smiling with your eyes. This is the kind of look you want to give her with a hint of sexiness and craving involved. Your gaze should not be held for too long as it can quickly cross over into the creepy side of things but it should not be held too short that it looks as though it's just a quick glance over her and not interested.

Give her a couple seconds of your best eye contact every so often and follow it up with an eventual conversation.

10.? No Rambling or Unnecessary Words

When you do have a conversation around or with a girl don't be that guy that rambles on and on and on or adds a whole bunch of unnecessary information into their sentences and stories.

While this may be okay later on in a relationship, once you get to know each other, it is not suitable for trying to get someone to notice you in a good light.

The problem with rambling is this. It can be exhausting to listen, it will not give her a chance to talk, it will make you look like someone who loves hearing their own voice, and you will probably shoot out a few things that can offend, turn her off, or just look plain stupid when you ramble. The chances of something being said that you did not want to say greatly increase when you ramble on and on.

11. Don't Say Too Little - Be Interesting

If you say too little then you can come across as not being interested in conversation or as just plain boring.

Women like a guy who can hold a conversation and has interesting stuff to add to it. So don't answer with one or two words but really give her something to talk about.

Bellaisa is the owner of Pleasure Her Tonight, a website that talks about how to attract women, seduce women, and please a woman.

How to Attract Women - 3 Tips on How to Get Women to Not Just Notice You But Want You As Well

A lot of guys will wonder what they can do to get women to notice them, and that's where all of the questioning ends. It's one thing to get women to notice you, it's another thing entirely to make them want you as well. If you think that it's hard to attract women and make them really desire you, pay attention. It just might be easier than you ever thought, and in no time at all, you can be the guy that women fall head over heels for.

Here are 3 tips to get women to notice you AND want you as well:

1. Women want what they cannot have and they want what other women do have.

This wouldn't be too popular a topic in a group of women, but it's the truth. Women want to get the guy that they see as a challenge and they want him even more when it looks like other women want him as well. When you are out in a club or a bar, try to get in with a group of women, and pay attention to how suddenly other women start to pay attention to you. Flirt with 2 women at once, and watch how they start to compete with each other for your attention.

2. Women pay attention and desire guys that can show their independence.

Too many guys fail to see how important it is to show a woman that you can be independent of her, that you can kind of just do your own thing, and that they like that kind of behavior. Just because you've heard all the cliches about how women want a guy that is always there for them, it doesn't change the fact that women respond much more favorably to guys that have no problem with doing their own thing.

3. To make a woman really desire you, she has to see that you are not a boring guy.

Most of the time when a guy finds that it's hard for him to attract women and get their attention, it has to do with the fact that he is coming across as being just too ordinary, too bland. To stand out, you have to look like you have style, like you know how to have a good time and that you are anything but boring. You also have to show her that dating you will be fun for her, and that will make her desire to be with you.

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