Get Your Ex Lover Back - 4 Top Secrets Revealed For the First Time

If you are someone who is wondering how to get your ex lover back, then there is some real good news waiting for you. It is something that is still possible, however lost the situation may seem to you. The only problem is that many times people end up doing it wrong, driving the ex still further and not rushing back into your arms. Let us take a look at the top ways in which you can get your ex lover back in double quick time.

1. The first thing that you need to do, oddly enough is to not chase your ex lover. You should not for instance constantly bombard him or her with emails or messages over the mobile phone. You would only be irritating and driving them away from you further. Instead you should give them some time to collect their thoughts and reflect on what has gone wrong in your relationship.

2. The second aspect that you need to guard against is to get into a depressive mode. Remember, if you want to get your ex lover back, it is important that you are cheerful and enthusiastic and not sulking around in a corner if you want to get your ex lover back. Your demeanor should reflect your confidence that you would get your ex back.

3. At no point in time after a breakup should you avoid social life. Remember, you may be actually missing many useful tips from others on getting your ex lover back, if you were to avoid meeting people in general.

4. You should try and build some more value for you. For example, if it was because you were not earning sufficiently that your ex left you, then the first thing that you need to do is to get a good job and show him or her that you are now taking the steps to becoming financially stable.

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Women Approaching Men - 5 Secrets For Getting Women to Notice You and Make the First Move

Here's a question I get all the time: "Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me? And how can I get women to approach me first?"

Okay, that's actually two questions. But you get the point.

Well, we all know that women are typically subtle creatures. They aren't often going to come whack you upside the melon with a 2×4 and announce, "Hey stoopid...I'm into you."

On second thought, maybe in certain parts of Brooklyn and/or Queens that could happen. And having gone to school in downtown Filthydelphia, I might have to make an exception there also.

But I digress.

Even though most guys habitually miss women's subtle indicators of interest, all is not lost. In fact, this post is dedicated to lazy guys everywhere who want to hit the "easy button" and bypass all of the Chick Whispering altogether.

Here, at long last, are five bona fide ways you can get women to approach you for a change.

Let's get on with it...

Be A Bartender Or Waiter
So you want to get your bar/club game in order? Try working at one. I might even include "bouncer" on the "A list" of must-have jobs. Then again, if AFC's persist in buying the hottest women drinks, then that would obviate my point. Let's put you behind the bar and hope for the best anyway. After all, some hottie somewhere has got to be buying her own drinks...um, right?

On second thought, why not just be a waiter? Go sling hash at Red Lobster and serve Sailor's Platters all day to cuties. And businessmen on their lunch break.

Here's a better idea, work in the kitchen. That way the waitresses have to approach you constantly...all shift long.

Take Your Dog To The Park
Ingredients: One dalmatian. One red scarf. One frisbee. Combine into one local park and mix thoroughly. Now that's a recipe for getting mobbed by women if I've ever seen one.

No dalmatian? A Labrador, Shetland Sheepdog or Australian Shepherd should do. Or just take a Chihuahua and stand there holding it until someone wants to pet it.

And if all else fails, at least you aren't going home alone...right?

Work At The Mall
What do women love more than anything? Shopping, of course. And where are the most shops to do such shopping located? You guessed it...the mall.

Don't even think about working at Champs or some other guy store, though.

And don't get your logic crossed up and go work at Fashion Bug or something either. Only completely style-free women shop there.

And it's not like you can go to Petite Sophisticate and get a job either. That's just flat-out creepy.

What you need to do is be the guy standing in the food court handing out Chick-Fil-A. Hot women love Chick-Fil-A. And Orange Juliuses too. I guess. Nah, stick with Chick-Fil-A. The name says it all.

Never mind the fact that you're only getting minimum wage for your trouble. This is about scoring the babes.

Babysit Your Niece And Go Public
First, get an older sister or brother. Next, make them have a kid or two. Then, get the kid to grow up so she (preferably) is potty-trained.

From there, you've got about 18-24 months to get to babysittin'.

Dress the cute little girl up and take her where women tend to hang out. Like Chick-Fil-A.

I got mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders at ELP airport one day with this strategy. Except the kid happened to be my daughter. And I was married to the kids Mom. So no "digits". Bummer.

Wear A Red Shirt To Target

Now, let me be forthright. I don't have a lot of red shirts. After all, red means "stop".

Nonetheless, one day I happened to "hit the Target" wearing one of those red shirts.

If you haven't figured out the significance of this section yet, people who work at Target wear red shirts. And it's not even like they have standard, company-issue uni or anything. They just wear some red shirt they dug out of the closet...or some freshman football player's locker.

This means that if the planets are aligned and you happen to drop in the local Target with a red shirt on, you're fittin' to get mobbed. By beautiful women. And by old guys who can't find the Metamucil.

But the point is, they're approaching you.

OK, by now you've probably figured out that this is a semi-serious post, at best.

With all the time we spend around here talking about "manning up", my role as a dating coach to men is always going to be to encourage guys to do the approaching. I can't really expect you to sit here and listen to me blather on about "women approaching you" with a straight face.

After all, if you're waiting around for women to approach you, you might wait a long time. Even if you take the list I gave above seriously, you've got to admit there are some "surgical procedures" involved. You've got to be in the right place at the right time under the right circumstances.

So why not avoid the hassle altogether and go talk to some women? Make the first move. Be proactive. It feels better than wearing a red shirt to Target.

Scot McKay's brand new relationship management system The Leading Man is found at: http://www.the-leading-man.com

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How to Be the Ultimate Prize That Women Chase After - Secrets of Getting Women to Chase You Instead

Typical guys today follow the crowd and don't do anything special in order to make women pursue them. It would be worthwhile to undertake this effort to turn you into a better man - and ultimately a girl magnet that is simply irresistible.

Having a lot of personality is not important in order to win women over - instead, you simply have to find out what her mind is saying. Making use of a couple of psychological tactics, female emotions can be accessed to make her date you within a shorter time than originally thought of. Every woman has these emotional trigger points and they can be used to benefit you. Before making women fall for you, you have to "sell" yourself - you will need to position yourself as a huge prize for her to win. In short - she needs to want you for being a catch.

How To Be The Ultimate Prize That Women Chase After - Secrets Of Getting Women To Chase You Instead

Tactic #1. Be highly valuable. Make women feel like you could care less about rejection and that everything is just a game. Other things happen to be going on and she is simply one other portion of the world. If she isn't interested in joining you, that's fine. It's not the end o the world.

Tactic #2. Build rapport by matching tasteful humor with cockiness. Being cocky does not put women off. Humor softens female personalities to make her feel your fun side. Nobody wants to date men who are way too serious all the time. Women long for somebody that can bring laughter and fun in the relationship.

Tactic #3. Use fractionation. There is one other way to increase this perceived greatness. Imagine making every woman fall for you in merely a couple of minutes. This is completely possible with the help of fractionation. This technique is known to be able to make women fall in love quickly - often in the span of 15 minutes or even less.

But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning...

Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).

These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.

But if you're ready to get girls without breaking a sweat, then do this instead...

Secrets To Getting Women - 5 Things That Will Surprise You

Shh.

Do not tell a soul. I am about to reveal my secrets to getting women.

Well, they only seem like "secrets" because they are so steeped in common sense that many men fail to follow them.

On the dating women radio show that I co-host, we tell guys all the time to keep the following 5 things in mind.

ONE: You must pass the physical attraction test

I love the internet "gurus" that tell me I can have any woman I want. I am bald and not tall. What if she likes a guy with flowing hair over 6 feet tall? I am out. In spite of all my knowledge about dating and relationships, I will not get anywhere with her. "But women are different," you protest.

Hogwash.

They may approach dating and relationships in a different manner but they are still, after all, human.

TWO: Keep it light and funny

I cannot tell you the amount of women that tell me that they really liked a guy but when he rolled up talking about his divorce and all sorts of other disappointments on the first couple of dates, they got turned off.

As Cyndi Lauper said, "Girls just want to have fun." If you are on a date with her then keep it light and funny!

THREE: Let her do the talking

Maybe you do not have your light and funny game honed quite yet. I can work with that if you keep your mouth shut because we want her to do most of the talking anyway. Are you proud of the new car or job you got? Think it will impress her? Think again. Women get into a euphoric high when they talk about themselves and most are turned off when you try to impress her with your toys or accomplishments.

You were given 2 ears and 1 mouth by God so use them as intended!

FOUR: Stay out of her face and space

Men want to sell, sell, sell. I suppose it is how we are raised. Get that promotion! Score the TD! Do more pull ups! Push, push push! With women this does not work. She wants to WONDER whether or not you are into her or not. She has every other guy trying to put his hands all over her. She has every other guy calling all the time trying to get with her 7 days a week. You need to be the "in the background" guy that she wonders about because you keep your hands to yourself, you are a gentleman, you keep it light and funny and you disappear for days at a time without her knowing what you are up to.

Women respond to mystery and challenge (plus fun).

FIVE: Remember it is a numbers game

Out of 10 women you approach, you might get 1 date you are interested in. 5 women will blow you off entirely. 3 will give you the number and disappear. 1 will go out with you but you will not be interested in.

These numbers could be higher or lower depending on you but even the hottest Hollywood hunk is not going to ultimately sell every woman. We did a story on a real hot star a few years back on our radio show and his wife was divorcing him.

The key thing to keep in mind? Dating is like sales. The more you ask, the better chance you have of finding the woman that is right for you.

Remember guys, there are no secrets to getting women. Just common sense that is uncommon in its practice.

Find out more secrets to getting women by clicking now! Actually, you will just get more "common sense" and have access to our free dating women radio show!

You may also go directly to the site by clicking http://www.datingwomenexpert.com.

Jeff M. Stevens is heard all over the US on several commercial radio stations as co-host of The Doc Love Show. Jeff is compensated by Doc to write these articles and when you buy products from Doc.

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How to meet women online - profiles the secrets overlooked of Social Network

You want to know something funny? There are several million, no TENS OF MILLIONS of men trying to meet and date women online, and it's the same number for men who're trying to do that on Facebook, MySpace or Bebo, and on and on.

In all the time I've been meeting and dating women on the internet via around 11 different, social networking sites, I've discovered an amazing secret that seems so obvious but eludes so many of us.  

You see, 99% of the men online use only ONE THIRD of the full potential of their profiles, while the remaining two thirds only SERIOUSLY INJURE the chances of them ever achieving success. And that's when they're knowing what they're doing with that one third of potential, or things are sure to get even WORSE for them (how does RUINING your chances online forever and ever sound?)  

But What's The Cause Of This Mass Murdering Of The Chance To Get A Date Via The Internet, By So Many Men?   

It's NOT using all the areas of your profile that are available to you, because you either:

DON'T know they EXIST, or: DON'T know how to USE them

On social network sites like MySpace, there are EIGHT profile areas (and them I'm grouping some into one BIG area) you can use to MULTIPLY the amount of women who will message YOU first, and to MAXIMIZE the effect of the messages you reply to so you'll have more women eagerly awaiting your reply than you can handle. And the brutal truth is: the vast majority of males who are looking to get a date on the Web are only using THREE of these profile areas and, if they DO know about other profile areas, they DON'T know how to use them to create attraction.  

Do you understand what this means?  

It means that the majority of their profile (2/3 or 66%) is WASTED SPACE and if the other three areas are well done (and they almost never are), the huge amounts of wasted space will SABOTAGE their attempts at meeting women. I highly recommend you check out the profiles of other MEN after reading this, just so you'll see how much they SUCK (so you'll know how much women you can meet when you do it right because other men don't stand a chance against your profile).  

And it means that you, IF you know what these profile areas are and how to insanely improve them so not even a tenth of an inch of space on your profile is wasted because EVERYTHING is designed to create attraction, that you'll have an unfair advantage over every single rival for as long as you keep your profile up there! Let alone the effects on the number of messages you'll receive (think a TENFOLD increase in very interested responses from women)  

Let's dig in:  

The Hidden 8 Hidden Profile Areas That Will Seriously BOOST The Number Of Conversations With Hot Women You'll Have Online A.S.A.P.  

1. Photos: She'll look at your photos FIRST, because a picture will tell her so much more then just some words..plus it tells her if you're cute or not. You can use them to let her know: she has competition (photos of you & other women), that you are a REAL guy and not some guy who's trying to be smooth (photos of you & family or friends), that you have a sense of class & style (your wardrobe and the people you hang out with on your photos, etc.), and more...see my other topic in this board for some more world-class tips.  

Things to do

Show her you're a desirable man with options, who she'll have to fight for and who's comfortable around women: include 2 photos of you hanging out with cute women Don't try to be mister smooth and show women you're a real person, a people's person: include a photo of you and family, and 1 of you and friends Make her desire to join your exciting life: include some photos of you on vacation, traveling, or in beautiful settings (sunset, in front of a waterfall, etc.) Smile, once upon a time there was this little research project where women were given photos of two guys, one smiling and the other with a straight face, and asked which one was more attractive... guess what? The smiling bald guy won from the straight faced guy that still had hair
2. Descriptions: The area where you can talk freely about yourself, women watch HOW you talk about closely to find out who you are: it shows them if you're confident, if you're exciting or just some boring guy, if you're attractive or a total wussy, or a needy guy, etc. From your descriptions she can tell whether or not you have standards and an exciting life she would like to join.  

Things to do

Don't be boring...and use humor in your descriptions, use some emoticons (those :P and (A) and :) thingies, as they add EMOTIONAL impact, hence the name) and EMPHASIZE some words to again give everything you say more IMPACT Tell about crazy experiences, wild adventures or your greatest passions and talk about it VIVIDLY: no I went to A, B and C but sensory details (how the setting smelled, sounded, felt, the colors and shapes) and emotional drama (how did you feel: anxious, happy, sad, enthusiastic, delighted, in love, etc.). Why? Because it lets her imagine it like she's there herself, which makes it compelling to talk to you more..because you tell such great stories
3. Comments: This is the area where a woman can see how OTHER people talk about you, which tells her if you're a social guy who's comfortable around women (and not some nervous introvert), whether she has competition (making her jealous and want to fight for you), if you have fun and an exciting life and so forth.  

Things to do

Women receive 30 to 50 messages from men PER DAY, but only a handful of comments per week, so don't hesitate to drop a comment and see what happens, because you'll stand out MUCH faster and standing out online among millions of competitors is half the victory Mr. Reader Let other women happily chat away in your comment area and do the same in theirs: it lets other women know they have competition and that you're a desirable man..(and I don't have to tell you how jealousy can rush things ahead because she just HAS to have you all to herself, do I?)
4. Interests: What you like and dislike, it's the standard yes/no kinda questions on your profile, which she'll have a look at to see if you have things in common. But there are cool things you can do with interests to create massive amounts of curiosity and attraction.  

Things to do

Don't be a good boy and fill in everything with boring crap, use humor like this:

Hobbies: baseball, going out, crocodile wrestling, movies.

I call this technique the odd one out (remember that childhood game?), and you can use it to make her laugh, to be outrageous or even slight naughty (Hobbies: working out, mountain biking, posing for the Playgirl)  

5. Groups: Social networks have all kinds of groups (like the Asian Corner group and the Latino Pride group or whatever), and being a member not only allows you to talk to a woman easier (by talking about a common interest-- the group you two are in) and there are many other ways too: forums, blogs of someone else (or yourself), etc.  

Things to do

List every single place you've ever gone to school or worked. This will make it a lot easier for people who have known you in the past to find you on Facebook or MySpace etc. Also, when class reunions come up, you'll be invited! It's also easy to look for women who went there and easily start a conversation about it because you have something in common (it's meeting women in college, AFTER college now you're don't have to deal with puberty anymore) Join groups of your hobbies, likes, passions and activities, because having fun conversations with women who SHARE your passions is so easy, a baby could do it
6. Friends: Friends can tell a lot about a guy: how open minded he is (does the NYC guy only know New Yorkers or other people too? do you have black, latino or whatever nationality friends too?) and being open minded equals spontaneity, which women love. If you have female friends you can use that to let a woman know you have options, to create jealousy, competition, and there's lots more!  

Things to do

Let them know you're a confident, open minded and desirable man...and have some female friends to create jealousy, have friends from all walks of life to show that you've been to places and are a REALLY social guy (this is social proof: that you have a life of your own and that you're comfortable around other people, and women) The girl you sent a message has female friends you probably wouldn't find on your own because they set their profiles to visible to friends only or live in the smallest towns that you didn't even know existed, so why not message them too? Her male friends (and yours too) also know women you won't find that easily, why not message them too?
7. Media: Sure you can put music or videos of Mortal Kombat, Star Wars, bloody violence and death metal bands on your profile, but the fact of the matter is: that's not what compells most women to find out more about you. Outrageous videos do attract women however, funny videos do too, r&b music does that as well, and so forth.  

 Things to do

Show a hottie that you're a trendy guy who stays current, that you know what women like and that you have good taste, and include some r&b, soul or nice & slow pop on your profile playlist. Why? Because women love a trendsetter, and a man who knows what they like.  

8. Design: Women like a man with a sense of style, with good taste..and a profile that looks better than just plain black & white simply compels women LESS than a profile with a cool background, a nice design, etc.  

Things to do

Use contrasting colors to make sure women can read EVERYTHING you have to say (plus, don't overdo the happy happy factor with bright yellow OR the I'm as depressed as people can get look with gray and black)

Dennis Miedema is the owner of Win With Women, a web site and blog, dedicated to coaching and mentoring men on the art of dating women. Contact him at http://www.win-with-women.com